Supermoon Chaser

Supermoon chaser: similar to a storm chaser minus the risk of dying.

They said it was going to be an "extra-special" moon. I'll let you decide.

Saturday, August 9 | 11:15 pm | Carp Highlands Court, Carp, ON

Saturday, August 9 | 11: 30 pm | Carp Highlands Court, Carp, ON

Sunday, August 10 | 3:30 am | Carp Highlands Court, Carp, ON

Sunday, August 10 | 4:15 am | Carp Highlands Court, Carp, ON

Sunday, August 10 | 8:35 pm | Carp Road, Carp ON

Sunday, August 10 | 8:40 pm | Carp Road, Carp ON

Sunday, August 10 | 8:55 pm | Craig Side Road, Carp, ON

Sunday, August 10 | 9:10 pm | Diefenbunker, Carp ON

I snapped these pics over my hometown, the centre of the universe, Carp, ON (rural Ottawa) with a Canon 70D.

Did you get some amazing shots of #supermoon2014? I would love to see them. Tweet them to me @MrsARob.

2014 CIBC Run for the Cure: I'm running for my bestie

On March 21, 2012 I received a text from my bestie: can you come over?

Me: is everything OK?

Bestie: no.

Moments later I sat in her kitchen still in my pjs with fur on my teeth and learned my best friend had been diagnosed with invasive lobular carcinoma. In layman's terms: breast cancer.

In the months that followed she lost both of her breast at the young age of 35 from this awful disease before facing chemotherapy and radiation. It turned her life upside down as well as her family's.

Just a few weeks ago, almost two years plus a day of her double mastectomy, she began the reconstruction process. An expander was placed under her skin and chest muscle. Over the coming months it will slowly filled with saline by her doctor. After the tissue has relaxed and healed enough, the expander will be removed and replaced with her new girls.

This is why I will be running in the 2014 Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation CIBC Run for the Cure on Sunday, October 5th. Breast cancer is a cause that is near to me. I am proud to be contributing to Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation’s vision of creating a future without breast cancer.

There is a cure; we just need to find it. We need to end this ugly disease.

As every dollar counts, I am running a Twoonies for Tatas campaign. That's right, I am only asking for a $2 donation. For every person who supports my fundraising efforts, your name will go into a draw for tickets to see the battle of Ontario on Wednesday, September 24 at the Canandian Tire Centre. Together, we can help to create a future without breast cancer.

To make a donation, please click here.

Documented within my blog is the rollercoaster ride I took with my bestie as she kicked the sh*t out of cancer. Sadness. Shock. Frustration. Hurt. Guilt. Happiness. Fear. Excitement. Jealousy. Love. Panic. Pride. Relief. Pure, raw emotion. It's all there. Please scroll through to learn more about the journey we took together.

Much love,
Sarah
xo

ps - anyone want to be my training buddy? Do you have an app you would recommendation to get my butt in gear? Please let me know. I should probably start training.

pps - also need to start planning my outfit. Oh c'mon, you knew I would bring my shopping addiction into this somehow ;)

Happy Sensversary

5,475: the number of days hubs has been with the best hockey club in the NHL: the Ottawa Senators. Fifteen years ago he traded his love for the blue and white to follow his passion for sport.

Over his time he has brought smiles to the faces of thousands and thousands of kids. From taking the Bell Capital Cup into the Guinness Book of World Records to building the Rink of Dreams at City Hall, the first refrigerated ice surface of its kind in Ottawa, he has been committed to ensuring kids from all walks of life have a chance to play hockey.

Happy anniversary @TheEhRob. Beyond proud of you each and every day. Cheers to 15 more.

I know I'm biased but other people think he's pretty incredible too:

Aaron Robinson earns Forty Under 40 honour

Bell Capital Cup general manager recognized by Ottawa Business Journal

Thursday, 25.06.2009

He’s the man who makes the Bell Capital Cup go.

For that and everything else he does on behalf of the Ottawa Senators organization, Aaron Robinson has been selected by Ottawa Business Journal as one of its Forty Under 40 for 2009. The paper annually honours a group of “successful, dynamic and community-minded business leaders” under the age of 40.

Robinson, the Senators’ director of fan and community development, is best known for his work with the Bell Capital Cup. As the event’s general manager for the past six years, he has been a driving force in an event that, in 2007, became the “world’s largest hockey tournament” in the esteemed eyes of the Guinness Book of World Records.

“Aaron has been a key contributor to Senators Sports & Entertainment for a number of years,” said Cyril Leeder, the chief operating officer of Senators Sports & Entertainment and founder of the Bell Capital Cup.

“He brings passion, professionalism and commitment to everything he does. Nowhere has that been more evident than in his work in developing the Bell Capital Cup into the world’s largest – and best – hockey tournament.”

It is truly a labour of love for the 35-year-old Robinson.

“Every facet of (the Bell Capital Cup) is demanding and very tough, but it’s also very rewarding when you see the kids at the end and their joy in winning a championship,” he said. “There’s also the charity end of it. We know we contribute more than $200,000 each year to minor hockey and local charities.

“To see the city come together and make it such a success is hugely rewarding.”

The tournament’s overall contribution to the capital region – and Robinson’s role in that success – impressed OBJ’s Forty Under 40 selection committee.

“There are two key things that stood out on Aaron’s nomination for Forty Under 40,” said Ottawa Business Journal publisher Michael Curran, who also chairs the awards selection committee. “First, the sheer accomplishment of organizing an event of the magnitude of the Bell Capital Cup and the economic impact it has on Ottawa. The logistics are mind-boggling with 485 teams and the economics of contributing $13.3 million to business is very significant.

“But beyond the numbers, the selection committee was very impressed with Aaron’s strong desire to leverage the Bell Capital Cup to help local charities and minor hockey. In a nutshell, that’s what Forty Under 40 is all about – bottom-line success and giving back. Aaron exemplifies that.”

"The selection committee was very impressed with Aaron's strong desire to leverage the Bell Capital Cup to help local charities and minor hockey. In a nutshell, that's what Forty Under 40 is all about – bottom-line success and giving back. Aaron exemplifies that." - Michael Curran

Robinson, who will hit the 10-year mark with the Senators organization next month, said he is “pretty honoured” to receive recognition from OBJ. But he quickly added, “from my own point of view, it’s an organizational distinction more than an individual award.”

“It demonstrates the support and commitment Senators management and staff has to giving back to our community,” said Robinson. “I’m fortunate to be in a position that I thoroughly enjoy, with an organization that has allowed me to grow professionally and assist in making our community a better place to live.

“It comes down to the kids. When you see the smiles on kids’ faces, you know you’re making an impact on the community and making the community a better place.”

24h Tremblant: who's ready to hit the slopes for kids?

The air is already hot from the sun. The leaves make music in the breeze. It's a perfect summer day in Ottawa. Earlier hubs said something like "at least you're not thinking of skiing". Aaah, ya, whatever.

Five months from today the 14th edition of 24h Tremblant will kick-off. I have been fortunate enough to participate in this amazing event for the last two years.

24 hours. 1,440 minutes. 86,400 seconds. 2,000 people. $2M for kids.

24h Tremblant is a relay style ski event, a festive and fun-filled weekend, but most importantly a fundraiser for the kids. It's a 24 hour non-stop, non-competitive ski & snowboard challenge. Teams even race through the wee hours of the night to record the most tracks carved. Proceeds support children in need through organizations like the Sens Foundation.

This is my absolute favourite winter weekend of the year. From the time you arrive to the time the final amount raised is revealed the energy is electric. It's a weekend of celebrating, emotion and connecting with amazing people.

You hear stories of young children who never in a million years should be dealing with what they are. Of courage. Of hope. Inspiration. It's a weekend that unites people.

The 14th edition of 24h Tremblant takes places December 5-7 this year. Register your team today and hit the slopes for the kids.

Click here to watch a wrap-up video of the 12th edition of 24h Tremblant by Volkswagen.

A night at the Carp drive-in...BINGO style

Winner winner; chicken dinner

Over the loud speakers with perfect annunciation B-14 is called. Daub. Followed by N-34. Daub. Then G-60. Daub. My heart feels like it's going to jump out of my chest as I almost have a line. Ya, ya. Little things excite me. B-2. Zoot! O-69. O-69 is repeated. Woohoo! I lay my hand on the steering wheel and honk.

Yep. Honk. That's right folks. I honk the horn on my car. Why? Because I'm at the drive-in bingo of course.




Carp Fair drive-in bingo
Photo credits: Carp Fair & Auntie Times

This is the scene every Wednesday night of July in Carp, aka my community, aka the centre of the universe. Center ring at the fairgrounds is filled with excitement as the drive-in bingo has become a ritual for many around Ottawa and the Valley. Friends and families line the grounds to create unforgettable memories. Cause let's face it, how many people can say they've been to a drive-in bingo?

 

What to expect

When you pull up to the fairgrounds you are greeted by friendly volunteers. For 10 bucks you get 12 regular game sheets plus a jackpot game. Each sheet contains 9 cards so unless you're a real pro, it's plenty of bingo.

Blueberry goodness

After you are directed on where to park, hit up to the canteen. There's a BBQ and the best part? You don't have to cook. For dessert grab a slice of pie. Oh my gawd make sure you get the pie. They are all homemade and sooooooo delicious. If you wait for the break, there's no guarantee that there will be any left so get it early. Daubers are also available at the canteen in case you forget yours.

There's no golden rule on where you daub. While it's a "drive-in" some people bring blankets to spread out while others gather around in camping chairs. The Agricultural Society also sets up a few tables and chairs near the front for the keeners.

Around 8:00 pm the daubbing begins. Numbers are called old-school style: announced by a caller over the loudspeaker who repeats it at least twice. It goes fast but not so fast that it leaves your head spinning. The caller is good to let you know what colour card you are playing and the game (line, T, X, cross, blackout).

After an hour or so of gaming they take a short break. Enough time to grab a snack and some 50/50 cards. Sellers are set-up at red tables between the aisles. Cards have 3 boards and are $1 each. I've been on nights where the take home is well over $400. Not too shabby for a small town game!

It's not a super late night as things wrap up between 10:00 - 10:30 pm. Parfait for those who have to work the next day or need to get the littles to bed.

A few things to keep in mind

1. Bring a clipboard or a piece of cardboard. While the Agricultural Society has a number of boards to dab on, they do sometimes run out. Having something handy to dab on will make your life a lot easier in the event they're out.
2. Bug spray is a must. Whether you're in sitting outside or in your car the little critters can be nasty.
3. If you've got the lights or radio on in the car, it's good idea to start it every now and then. Makes getting home a bit easier.
4. Let the kiddos wear their jammies so you can plunk them right into bed when you get home.
5. Develop a system - for the special games (X, cross, T, etc) only dab those numbers within that shape. Trust me, you'll find the shape much faster. Plus you won't continue to ask "what game are we playing again?"

Now this one is for the "professionals" only: bring a headlamp. It gets dark and while there are lights all around the ring, you don't want shadows casting over your boards.




Professional dauber

Overall it's just a big excuse to get together and support a great cause. Proceeds from the evening support making the best little fair in Canada happen. So git'yur daubbers ready and we'll see you at the BINGO!

Deets

When: every Wednesday in July. BBQ starts at 6:00 pm; Bingo at 8:00 pm. Rain or shine.
Where: Carp Fairgrounds, Carp Road just north of March Road in the village of Carp (about 15 minutes west of Canadian Tire Centre)
Cost: $10 a board; $1 per 50/50 sheet. BBQ & snacks available
More info: www.carpfair.ca or 613-839-2172

Ringside For Youth: it's for the kids

One thousand guests. Five bouts of amateur boxing. A lot of Las Vegas.

Fifteen volunteers. Two point five million dollars. A lot of kids helped.

These are the ingredients that make-up Ringside for Youth: Ottawa's most unique fundraising event. Together they are a recipe of success.



Twenty years ago Steve Gallant, First Vice-President & Investment Advisor for CIBC Wood Gundy, knew something had to be done to save the Debra Dynes Youth Centre in the neighbourhood he grew up in. Tom Hicks, co-founder of JetForm Corporation, agreed. Together they combined their business expertise and founded Ringside for Youth.


Photo credit: Sean Sisk Photography

Today's recipe is the same as it was 20 years ago: dinner, amateur boxing from as far as the U.S. and a retired championship boxer as special guest. Many of the 1,000 guests are the same as they were 20 years ago. There hasn't been much movement in the fifteen or so volunteers who are involved in producing the event. And the causes remain the same: the Boys & Girls Club of Ottawa and Beaver Boxing.

The only thing that has really changed each year is the celebrity. This year it was done up big! Sugar Ray Leonard, one of the greatest fighters of all time, was this year's special guest.



Photo credit: Sean Sisk Photography

“I can’t think of anything more special than to have him here for the 20th,” said Gallant. “He’s phenomenal. He’s just so gracious and a real sportsman.”

Sugar Ray did more than just deliver a key-note address. He told stories about his life growing up. Recounted fights throw-for-throw with every duck, slip and block. He silenced a room.

Another ingredient of this spectacular recipe is the live, amateur boxing. While I'm not a boxing fan, I have a growing appreciation for the sport. Especially since women's boxing was introduced to the event last year. The bouts are officiated and counted on the athletes' cards. Boxers train their hearts out as this is as close to the big stage as they will ever get.

Because of this recipe, Ringside attracts some of Ottawa's most generous people. At any fundraising event that has live and silent auctions, it's a crap-shoot. Let's face it, no matter the city you live in you're constantly being asked to support something. But there was something about this evening that was different. You could feel it.



Photo credit: Sean Sisk Photography

Comedian Angelo Tsarouchas was in again from LA to emcee the event (he's only missed one over the years). The first live auction item is always the same: a prize package that included a fight robe and a pair of professional boxing gloves signed by the celebrity. The bidding started at $1,500 as it normally does. I wasn't paying much attention until I heard Ang at $7,000 - double what is normally raised for this item. I had to excuse myself from the conversation as an all-out bidding war ensued. It was up to $15,000 when Sugar Ray himself stepped back into the ring to announce he would throw in a free boxing lesson. The final bidding closed at a staggering $21,000!!

After that I knew it was going to be a good phenomenal night. The Ottawa Senators had donated a trip for 4 to an east coast game including travel on the charter. When the bidding finally closed at $15,000 Cyril Leeder, president of the team, quickly offered a second trip to the other bidder. Thirty thousand dollars in a matter of seconds.



Proud to with this amazing group
of people

Once all was said and done, Ringside for Youth raised a staggering $200,000 to ensure some of Ottawa's most vulnerable children have the best chance at success. I am incredibly proud to work beside such an amazing group of committed volunteers. Happy anniversary my friends.








This year I wore a hawt lil' Tibi number from Rent Frock Repeat. If you're looking for designer dresses without the designer price tag, consider renting one. Trust me, you will feel like you're on the runway.

Learn more about Ringside for Youth and the impact it has on youth in our community. Watch the video produced by one of our volunteer committee members.

 

 

The Smile Project

Originally posted at KickAss Ottawa

 

smile

verb (used without object), smiled, smil·ing

1. form one’s features into a pleased, kind, or amused expression, typically with the corners of the mouth turned up and the front teeth exposed.

It’s March. The time of year when the snow thins and blades of grass start to poke through. When kids pull out their bikes and run home with jackets tied around their waists. When the sun fills the air with warmth and you cruise around with the sunroof open, tunes cranked just a little louder. At least, that’s what normally happens in March.

This year, however, there has been snow on the ground for almost half of the year with more in the forecast. Even as a skier this rots me to the core. Kids are lucky to find their way anywhere as they can barely see around the layers bundling them. The temperatures are somewhere between arctic and polar vortex and we’re lucky if the car warms up before we even hit our destination. It’s official: hell has frozen over. Literally.

Since Mother Nature isn’t willing to warm up the air, I’m putting out a challenge to warm someone’s spirit. Make a difference in someone’s day through a smile, one of the most powerful gestures there is. A smile can not only have a positive impact on others but it can also brighten your own mood. Something as simple as a smile can warm a heart, put a person at ease and make you happier.

There is only one rule to the Smile Project: consciously smile at someone daily. Take an extra couple of seconds at the drive-thru and smile after thanking the person on the other side of the window. Smile at a stranger while passing them on the street. Pause in the middle of dinner and smile at your partner. Just smile. Whenever and wherever. It’s that simple. A smile invites a smile and maybe together we can ignite a chain reaction.




I'm smiling at you!

 So tell me, who did you smile at today?

Sens Soirée: Celebrating Sochi

Last night the Ottawa Senators Foundation hosted their annual #SensSoirée. It is their largest fundraising event of the year with all of Ottawa's who's-who in the room. So of course I was there. Sheesh. Seriously. Don't you know who I am? Ya, so maybe I was riding on hubs' coattails, but whatevs?!!

With the torch lit and the countdown to the 2014 Olympics on the theme for the evening was fitting: Sochi. A celebration of not just human excellence but the union of countries. And that's exactly what the Soirée represents. A community coming together not just to honour our beloved hockey team but to support some of Ottawa's most vulnerable.

The evening started out less than perfect. In fact, I was completely prepared to stay curled up in my grey sweat pants in front of the fireplace as I figured at least half of the guests would be doing the same. First, the NHL made a last minute schedule change meaning the Sens would now take on the Hurricanes IN Carolina Saturday afternoon. I was convinced they wouldn't make it back in time. And besides, they were coming back from a long road trip that didn't end well. Queue awkward conversations.

Not only that, Mother Nature was throwing a temper tantrum worse than any two year old and was making for less than ideal driving conditions. I checked the airport website on our way and declared to hubs that the team would not be making it.

The troopers we were (not like we really had a choice) we made it across the city. As we pulled up to the Hilton Lac-Lemay the text came in: the team had landed. Holy sh*t, maybe the night wouldn't be so bad after all.

It only got better from there. As soon as we walked in the doors there was an amazingly positive vibe. It filled me. Turned my meh mood around. I caught up with people I hadn't seen in eons. I put on my seamstress hat and averted a girlfriend's wardrobe malfunction. I talked about Maddie without crying. I was smiling and laughing again.

After a glass of wine or three we were called for dinner. The room.was.spectacular. I was shocked. Breathtakingly elegant. I really wasn't sure what to expect but the Foundation team #nailedit.

Each table had an Olympic inspired ice sculpture centrepiece

 



There was an energy to this event that I haven't experienced in Ottawa before. It was electrifying. I'm still reveling. We experienced a taste of Russia both in the entertainment and food. Who knew I would love beet borscht? ням

Photo Credit: Jana Chytilova/Freestyle Photography/OSHC
Freestyle Photography/OSHC

 



Following dinner Stuntman Stu started his auction chant. One of the items I was excited to for was an original oil on canvas (30"x40") painting by local artist Tony Harris entitled "Shinny". I know, how appropriate at a hockey event, right? It was beautiful. Realistic to the point you didn't know whether you were gazing out a window overlooking a park or a printed picture. A true Canadiana piece featuring a local landscape and pond hockey. One of those pieces that would suit anyone's home no matter their taste. There was a buzz about this piece leading up to the event that carried through the evening. Best part? The piece brought in $12,000. TWELVE THOUSAND DOLLARS!

Photo Credit: Jana Chytilova/Freestyle Photography/OSHC
Freestyle Photography/OSHC

 

The room was alive...and it wasn't just the Stoli. Well, that may have had something to do with it. After what we thought was the end of the auction, Stuntman Stu announced there was a "last minute item up for grabs". The prize? A meal prepared, in your own home, by Clarke MacArthur, Kyle Turris and Zack Smith. At least I think that's who was on stage first. Remember, there was wine at this event. And it was very ням.

 

People.Go.Insane. I mean cray cray. Grown women are screaming. Ahhhh, so what if I was one of them? "Fifteen thousand dollars. Can I get $20,000? How about $25,000?" It's thrilling.

 

Marc Methot has now jumped in on the action. Bobby Ryan is next. And then a guest says, "If Erik Karlsson comes, I'll give you FORTY THOUSAND DOLLARS". And like that, BAM! Erik in his European-too-tight-in-all-the-wrong-but-oh-so-right-places suit jumps on stage.

 

Photo Credit: Jana Chytilova/Freestyle Photography/OSHC
Freestyle Photography/OSHC



 

And just when you think it couldn't get any better, this happens:

 

 

 

That's right ladies, that's bad boy Joe Corvo shirtless. And yes, I am at the front of the stage soaking it all in. Someone please get me a napkin to wipe the drool off my chin.

 

By this point it's sheer exhilaration in the room. People are on their feet. And not just the middle-aged cougars. Screeches echo the room as the bidding goes past $40,000. I can't describe the energy as the bid went to $41K then $42K. Going once. Going twice. Forty-three thousand dollars. My fingers can't keep up right now as a relive the excitement.

 

The winning bid? FIFTY THOUSAND DOLLARS. Guests roar. It's jaw-droppingly, mind-blowingly insane. In all of the fundraising events I have been to in Ottawa, never have I seen this. What a high to end on.

 

As the night winds down, the conversations revolve around the success of the evening. A huge shout-out to the entire team at the Ottawa Senators Foundation and Ottawa Senators Hockey Club - from the management to players to personnel. It was a true union of communities. More than $325,000 was raised for youth mental health & addictions, pediatric healthcare programs, and outdoor community rink construction projects right here in Ottawa. I am absolutely honoured to have been a part of it.

 

Here are a few other things that made night my night so awesome:

 

 

Date night with @TheEhRob. We so cute!

Hanging with two of the most beautiful souls I know

Finally meeting +Kelli Catana IRL. We're like BFForeva now ;)

 

Incorporating Sochi into my attire. Get it?

Best part? Waking up to a vanilla latté this morning. Hubs.Of.The.Year



 

 

 









The power of social media

My morning routine: begrudgingly roll over as hubs springs out of bed. Prop my eyes open with toothpicks. Grab my phone. Scroll through social media eyes glazed, skipping ads and stupid bitstrips.

This morning was different though. My attention was drawn to a post right away. In fact, it was the first feed in my Facebook  and was well, about me?! The post doesn't name me directly but the description did. It was what I needed this morning.

I have been very open and public about the passing of our furbabe and the toll it has taken on my heart. While this individual and I are not close, it touched me. It brought tears to my eyes because it's another person who understands the grieving one goes through when loosing their best friend. It showed me that you do not have to talk to someone every single day for people to care. It proved that there are still individuals out there who actually give a damn about others. Most importantly, it warmed my heart. It was like a smile from a stranger.

The post reminded me that while Maddie is not physically here with me today, she is in my heart. And always will be. Her love will always be there.

So Angela, thank you. My day has been made thanks to your concern for others.

xo

(written while tears are flowing)

Original post can be found here.

I have been thinking a lot lately about a friend that lost her furbaby. We are not close friends and most likely could name a maximum of five things that we know about each other's lives now. Yet we share the special and eternal love of our dog. People may think, "Why is this such a big deal? It's just a dog." These are the people that have never had that bond. It is NOT just a dog. It's is a child with fur. They love, and feel love, snuggle and get excited. They like sneaking treats while watching movies on a Saturday night, giving you the "Feel sorry for me" eyes while you eat dinner. They are not just in your home, they become your home. So my friend grieve as long as you need to, shed as many tears as it takes to free your heart, and know that your baby watches over you knowing how much love she had, still has, and will forever be a piece of you. May your heart heal in time and your home find peace with her memories.

 The day new love found its way into my heart

ps - watch out Angela: I'm coming after you in Candy Crush!!! lol

Hockey Fights Cancer

Tonight the Ottawa Senators host Hockey Fights Cancer as part of the NHL cancer awareness program. I'm sure it's no surprise who I'm fighting for ;)

I FIGHT FOR:

my bestie & everyone with boobs

The Scar Project

Just because someone is "cancer free" doesn't mean it ever goes away. It's only been a couple of weeks but somehow I let myself start to believe we could soon put this behind us.  Until I had a stark reminder.

My bestie sent me a text while I was driving home tonight. "Google scar project." 

Slap. I am instantly reminded that this will never go away. Just because you hear the words "cancer free", she will wear the battle scars that will remind her every day of this journey. 

The images are are raw yet stunning. The beauty is incredible. They are some of the most powerful images I have ever seen. I found myself looking in the women's eyes and at their faces that told a story more than I did of the scars themselves.

After going through the website, I asked Dani if she would do this. "Sure." Of course she would. Because she is strong and brave and has her own story to tell.

http://www.thescarproject.org/

Giving Back

Today was the community Christmas meal at the Ottawa Mission - an organization in Ottawa dedicated to serving the homeless. What was once just a shelter for homeless men has grown into an organization that provides hope and bright futures.

This is an organization close to my heart. It does incredible things for Ottawa's less fortunate. I have had the privilege of working with their leadership on initiatives to ensure no one has to live in a shelter.

I have seen the hope it restores. My most humbling experience was attending a high school graduation at the Mission. Three men all from different backgrounds received their high school diplomas. I was honoured to be in attendance. These individuals have more strength than I will ever know. 

This year I had an opportunity to volunteer at the Mission helping to serve their community Thanksgiving meal. Their "community" meals are open to the public giving men, women, seniors, family or anyone for that matter a place to enjoy a beautifully prepared meal and be catered to. They are, after all, human and we all deserve that.

I had raved about my Thanksgiving experience to Dani and she was all over it. She has felt so blessed over the last 8-9 months that she wanted to start to give back.

Dani hates driving downtown so I drove (I suspect James and their credit card is thankful for this since downtown is where the best shopping in Ottawa is). I could tell something was up as she was a bit off. Dani told me she was nervous which totally took me by surprise. Dani.  Nervous?

I took for granted that I have been in this environment many times before. I have had exposure to not just the operations of a shelter but to the people who use them. Even before I joined the social services sectors I looked at those less who are less fortunate the same I look at anyone else: greet them with a smile;  say "hi"; whatever. My sh*t stinks just like theirs.

What was there to be nervous about? I couldn't figure it out. But then it occurred to me - it wasn't the people, it was the unknown. Just like anything new there is some form of emotion that goes along with that whether it's excitement, anxiety, fear, etc and this was no different.

We get there, introductions are made and we're off to the dining room. I lead the way and show Dani where things are. As I put myself in her shoes I can see how it can be overwhelming. I know most of the staff and quite a few of the volunteers. Geez, I have done this before.

I am proud. Beaming actually. It's hard to explain but I love that I am the one to provide her with this experience. That I get to be by her side. Whether she ever does it again or not, that doesn't matter to me. She came with me and gave back. 

Appreciative Participant

(article from the EMC newspaper)

Underlining the value of Terry Fox's message Appreciative participant. Cancer patient Danielle Thuot thanks those who gathered for Renfrew’s 2012 Terry Fox Run. 

By Kate Glynn
       
September 20, 2012

 

Terry Fox’s message of hope was brought home last weekend as Danielle Thuot took the stage at the 31st annual Terry Fox Run.

 

Any doubt that money raised from the annual event helps real people, was put to rest as Thuot took the mic Sunday, prior to the start of the run.

 

“In 1977 Terry Fox was diagnosed with cancer. That is the same year I was born,” she told the 150 volunteers and participants gathered at Renfrew’s Ma-Te-Way Activity Centre.

 

“That was thirty-five years ago. It seems like such a long time ago, we have been hearing about him forever. The Terry Fox Foundation has raised $600,000,000 and his name is a household word. He is a legend.

 

“But to a young woman with two small children diagnosed with breast cancer, 35 years just doesn’t seem like that many,” she said.

 

Thuot was diagnosed with Lobular Carcinoma this spring, but not before repeated visits to the doctor over an eight month period.

 

“They said it was just a blocked duct. It couldn’t be cancer, I was too young. They said I had no family history.”

 

The decision to have a double mastectomy this past May was an easy one Thuot told the crowd.

 

“I don’t want to have to tell my family I have cancer ever again,” said the Stittsville resident who works for Renfrew-based Deslaurier Custom Cabinets.

 

Thuot has just finished her first week of radiation and will go every day for the next four weeks. She will take a hormone suppressant for the next five years and will most likely need a hysterectomy in the next few months.

 

“I want to tell you how thankful I am that I have all of these things available to me,” she told the crowd.

 

“Once upon a time, when a woman was diagnosed with breast cancer, the only treatment available to her was a radical mastectomy. This meant not only removing the breast, but all the muscle under the breast and up into the arm, leaving a woman deformed and disabled and unable to use their arms for everyday activity.

 

“I thank you, because I can play with my kids; I can lift them up.

 

“Terry Fox started the Marathon of Hope and you guys are keeping it going. I really, really thank you and my family really thanks you,” she said.

 

Thuot concluded by wishing participants a fantastic run, “and next year I will be running alongside of you.”

 

The annual run, organized by sisters Tanya Campbell and Sheena Pilgrim, raised $22,800 and an additional $415 with the introduction of a silent auction this year.

 

The two women were pleased with the turnout that saw 125 participants, an additional 25 volunteers and support from the business community.

“We are so humbled and grateful for the dedication that everyone brings to the Terry Fox Run. Renfrew has raised a remarkable $335,000 since 1982,” Campbell said.

Inspiration

It's a beautiful fall day. The sun is bright and warms the cool, fall air. In communities across Canada Terry Fox's life is being celebrated. He was a humanitarian and cancer activist. This is how Dani wants to be described one day as well. Today she had her first opportunity to share her story publicly as Renfrew held its Terry Fox Run. The company my bestie works for was founded in the small town just west of Ottawa, where there are no strangers. Deslaurier Custom Cabinets was a sponsor of the event and as a result, Dani was asked to be the guest speaker.

We meet at the venue. Dani's rocking her shades and bald head. We hug as we always do when we greet each other. "I probably should have worn sunscreen" she says laughing and rubbing her head.

 

It's about a nanosecond before Dani's chatting with people she knows. I spot someone I haven't seen in a few years. Turns out Katie is doing some freelance journalist work and would love to meet Dani. As the two chat, the expression in Katie's face says it all: disbelief.

After the interview wraps up we head outside to kick off the run. Dani takes her place at the mic. I stand off the side. Listening. Reliving the last few months. Without realizing it, tears are streaming down my face. I look around and that is the case with almost everyone there.

She doesn't speak from a script. It was all from the heart. Powerful. Inspiring. It felt so raw again.

 

 

The race starts and we decide to walk for a bit. I whip out my Walkers4Knockers t-shirt from Relay for Life. We laugh. "Of course you brought it," Dani says.

Not knowing how long or for how far she can walk, we set-off. She's in the middle of radiation and it's only been a few weeks since her last chemo treatment. I am proud of her for even wanting to walk. Even more proud to be by her side. There are words of encouragement from strangers. Unsure smiles from those who don't know what to say. A kilometer or so in, it's time to turn around. But it's more than I could have asked for.

After the walk there's BBQ and chance to visit with people some more. I can see Dani fading. It's been a long day - both physically and emotionally. I interrupt with a "how ya doing lady?" and she look at me with a thankful expression. Sometimes ya just know.

I am beyond proud of Danielle. To speak in front of any crowd can be nerve wracking. To tell your personal story is courageous.

At the same time I am also surprised that none of our other friends or family made it. Selfishly though, no one else has this memory to cherish.

The EMC newspaper was there to capture the event and Dani's story. Read the article, Appreciative Participant, here.

Walkers4Knockers

Inspiring. Emotional. Courageous. Moving. Determination. Motivating. Exhausting. All of this was Relay for Life for me.

When Dani was diagnosed almost two months ago everyone dealt with the news differently. Some were the epitome of strength. Others quiet while they processed. Some jumped right in and naturally knew their role while others took a bit longer to figure out their place in this crazy journey.

We all shared one thing though: support for our dear friend.

When the idea of uniting together was presented, we all jumped on board. Relay for Life united us.

From start to finish the evening was moving. As a group we decorated our plot. Even though this was a "dry" event, we had a Beach Hut theme.

Front row (l-r): Megan, moi, Dani, Gina, Chantal

Back row (l-r) Cindy Sue, Christa, Captain Stacy

Missing: Colleen & Judy

Breast Cancer Ribbon Flag

 

Christa helping Sue get her girls in place

 

Team shirts

 

 

Before the relay started, there was an incredibly emotional opening ceremonies that includes a "Survivors Lap." No matter your age, how long you've been in remission or have been fighting this awful disease, Survivors open the celebration that signifies we are taking steps in the right direction to find a cure.

 

But it's not just about the Survivors. This part of the evening also recognizes their rocks - someone who has stood by them through their journey. It is usually a spouse, partner, sibling, caregiver. It doesn't matter who it is - it's symbolic of the people who share their journey with them.

 

Danielle Morin from the Ottawa Senators with her husband Don.

A beautiful soul. RIP my friend.

 

 

Once the Survivors have made their way around the loop, all teams then took to the track to walk in solidarity. This year Dani didn't feel it was yet her time to walk as a survivor. It was only 3 weeks ago that she had her double mastectomy and the day of the Relay she had her "pic" line put in. But she did somehow find the strength and courage to join us for the team walk.

 

 

Me & my bestie :)

Dani & her bro Sammy

 

GarBear (Dani's youngest)

 

 

Dani stuck around as long as she could but it had obviously been a long day. As this was a 24 hour event, the organizers did an amazing job at keeping people motivated. When you arrived at the event (or prior) you had the opportunity to purchase luminaries. It wasn't until they were lit did I understand the magic and power behind them.

 

Somewhere around midnight (maybe earlier) the Luminary Ceremony was held. It was a way to honour cancer survivors or those who have either lost their battle with cancer. I was overcome with emotion at this event. Picture thousands of luminaries all lit and the only noise to be heard is the odd sob. It's really quite amazing.

 

Luminaria for my bestie

Luminaria in honour of my grandma

 

 

The evening was one filled with love and support. Everyone on our team made it through the night. We chatted. Reflected. Offered words of encouragement. But most importantly, honoured our friend's journey.

5:00 am sunrise in Kanata

  

I was fortunate enough to have my mama there documenting the whole thing through pictures. Thank you again mom :)